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*Lost in Romance: Much Ado About Loving*

Just in the in time for Valentine’s Day, I read a book that covers

everything you always wanted to know about love, romance, and yes, sex, but

were afraid to ask.


Published in 2012,  *Much Ado About Loving: What Our Favorite Novels Can

Teach You About Date Expectations, Not-So-Great Gatsbys, and Love in the

Time of Internet Personals*, is a compact book of about 200 pages, by

writers Jack Murninghan and Maura Kelly, who are also advice columnists and

book lovers.  *Much Ado About Loving* takes an honest and in-depth look at

questions about love, romance, and sex, using classic literature as a

source of answers to many of the perplexing questions surrounding love and

romance.  I think most of us struggle with these questions and issues at

least some of the time, whether we’re married or single, straight or gay,

male or female. *Much Ado About Loving* attempts to answer questions and

concerns such as “are relationship that start with wild passion doomed?”,

and “are men genetically coded to cheat”? In the span of 31 chapters, the

authors take turns writing about various topics, using examples from

literature to illustrate their words.


When I first started reading this book, I worried that the book might

become too depressing for me. Whereas ignorance is bliss, too much honesty

can be an absolute downer at times, and I found some of the early chapters

by Maura Kelly a bit depressing, although she’s consistently funny.


“Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.”

~Ben Franklin, *Poor Richard’s Almanack, 1738*


I’m married, and I do think you need to focus on the good points of your

spouse, as much as possible, and not dwell on the negative aspects of

marriage, if you want it to last. The book (indirectly) tells us to keep

our eyes wide open before and during marriage (or any romantic

relationship). Help!


Fortunately, though, these skilled writers charmed me and I enjoyed much of

the book; the writing is sharp yet unpretentious, personal, entertaining,

and down-to-earth. The authors have created a very clever book about love,

using classic novels to entertain and enlighten.  What’s even better still

is that the book entices me to read works of literature such *Light in

August* by Faulkner and *The Brothers Karamazov* by Dostoevsky, and other

classic novels by authors such as Tolstoy, Proust, Miller, and Hemingway.

While the authors admit that their own love lives have been rocky (and

interesting, I might add!), their love of literature shines through.

Although Maura is not a huge fan of Jane Austen, she uses her work to

discuss marriage, and the enthusiasm the authors have for the majority of

the books they discuss is outstanding.  I’ve added a few novels to my

to-be-read list.  What more could a book blogger ask for?